Cookie Party 2007, Chez MommaBean

By kinziblogs

My joy over last night’s excitingly sweet gathering is marred by the fact Umm Zaid didn’t get sufficient info to get there, and then had one of those mortifying Mall experiences with her friends. Shoes that didn’t fit, too much Christmas overkill when the main Eid here is Eid Al Adha, and finding an inappropriate book (really, what were those display designers thinking?). Umm Zaid, public apology for not writing down your number and following up! In front of the whole www and J blogosphere, I implore forgiveness. :)

Considering the party was on the first day of Eid, which was based on the convenience of our two schedules more than anything, we weren’t expecting a huge response. Au contraire (too much Galler chocolate is inspiring my long-forgotten French to reappear).

But huge it was, with about 90% invited showing up! I think it must have been the 65 (count ém, 65!) emails reply-all back and forth: Jano’s little joke to Jad about finding the place by “looking for the star”, Lina’s desire that all that is done at the party STAYS at the party (and since she didn’t come, must’ve not felt it a serious promise!) of course, Hala’s promise to do dishes because she loves it. I almost brought her my sink-full, if she loves it so much. Several said it was the curiosity peaked by the emails that made them decide to come!

We all have to admit, it is a little weird to meet your fav bloggers for the first time. We know WAY too much about one another, remember a stupid comment or post we made and hope that person forgets. Cookies are the perfect venue to smooth the waters and make everyone comfy after first greeting. Heads were bowed over that table for half an hour as discussion flowed like the frosting and snacks off the buffet table.

MommaBean, thank you for pulling off an AMAZING feat, providing a warm and welcoming home, delightfully dizzying array of cookies, frosting, decorations (oh, you should have seen the teeny-tiny sugar reindeer and snowmen cupcake toppers!), a separate room for two different ages of kid guests to decorate, and Helper Bean’s efforts in both prep and clean-up. Sorry I talked so much and helped so little – story of my life :) .

In addition to all of us looking and acting like kids in a candy shop, my evening highlights:

1) MommaBean’s whimsical Christmas vest, handmade by her mother. TOO cute! How can this lady stay calm, cool, collected an smiling while buzzing everywhere hanging coats, refilling frosting, directing the masses and taking care of various child-dramas?

2) Meeting Dave the American blogger’s daughter (quite stylin’, he will have some serious wardrobe expenses in a couple years, and have to get a BIG stick to drive the boys away). Dave, in person, is also just like his blog persona, but his smile just sort of makes any sarcasm sweet. So unless he is ranting about traffic, imagine him writing it all with a grin. :D Mr. Leader, it was also his idea to do name tags. Shu shatre, huwwa.

3) BamBam’s presence! One of those guys that is who he is on-line as he is in real life, except he must be very humble on-line, as the guy is even more talented than I imagined. And he is darling, too. He BAKED the cookies he brought, on his own; not his sister, or his mom. No fluff, our No-Angel. Now we’ll have to see if he thinks his previous assessment of who I am was correct – can you tell what sign I am now? (besides the cross, yani) :)

4) Salam brought Raya and Zeid, and some delicious Pioneer Woman Cooks Bread Pudding. Raya was her angelic self, and the little Bean girls and Lil Kinz had a lot of fun together. Zeid has not forgotten his vertically enhanced method of decorating cookies from last year. He frosts, UP, not over. About 5x as thick as the cookie. If he had been my kid, it would have been the first one I stole and ate in secret.

5) Meeting Manal (don’t read blog). She is teeny and looks yet a teenager, what a combo to be that cute and smart. After a year of sporadic emailing, a pleasure to meet you! Manal may help me achieve my goal of becoming a less text-heavy, image-friendly blogger in 2008. (See, I DO read Bakkouz’ posts)

6) Hayat brought both her precocious little brother and precious Mom. Both churned out the cookie decor like nobody’s business. You wouldn’t have known tho, as the young man ate everything as soon as he decorated it.

7) Sam brought a couple relatives, as well as Ziad and a healthy Bilal. It was great to see her again, and we’ll have to have a St. Valentine’s cookie party before this treasure goes back to Canada. The interesting mix of blogger-kids was a good one!
8) Jad brought the Adiga-gals, Jano and sis-Fatoom, to round out the quieter circle of bloggers (there have to be SOME people that listen!). Jad, as well as the other 3 guys, was sort of a test case to see if we ladies could have JUST as much fun with men in the room. AND, to see how many cookies they would really eat. Jad showed extraordinary restraint, (passed the test, as they all did) by only eating what he had decorated himself. BUT, it happened so fast, no one got photos of his artwork.

9) Mazz, in Shad’s company, showed equal restraint. He was invited not only because of Shaden, but also because he bugged me FOREVER, ALL YEAR about being invited. Ok, that may be an exaggeration. But he did make some interesting requests as far as giant cookies go, so wonderful MommaBean granted the request and more…a family of giant snowmen! Shad helped design, she’s as good expressing herself with frosting as she is with words.

10) I couldn’t find my sheep cookie cutter, so we could do Eid cookies as well, but ingenious Dave was able to turn a train engine cookie sideways and create a very realistic sheep! So realistic, you could tell it was a post-10am-Eid-morning sheep: oh the wonders of red frosting.

11) Dave also broke several (not-to-be-named) hearts by announcing the marriage of the last of his brothers. Immediate consternation ensued, followed by inquiries about the possibility of male cousins, especially if they were as cute as Dave. For those who missed my Galler update, Dave is drop-dead cute.

12) Ramblin Hal was her delightful self, wearing those BOOTS she blogged about. She has found her mobile charger, btw: that Galler girl gets calls every five minutes! She kept everyone in stitches, Hal-ifing the most normal conversations into hilarity.

OK, I know I have forgotten someone, sam7uuni as the kounouz are wrestling and I need to referee. NEXT year, since the men of the test case have proven themselves mu’addab, we may make it open invitation to all if we can find a bigger place.

http://jadmadi.net/blog/2007/12/19/mommabeans-cookies-party/

http://janmania.net/blog/?p=656

http://alhayat-life.blogspot.com/2007/12/first-things-first_19.html

http://iread.blogspot.com/2007/12/okay-happy-eid-everyone-s.htmlhttp://a-tale-of-three-beans.blogspot.com/2007/12/what-happened-at-cookie-party-stays-at.html

26 Responses to “Cookie Party 2007, Chez MommaBean”

  1. qwaider Says:

    Sounds like you guys had so much fun. That is awesome. Great job on organizing.

  2. An American in Jordan » Blog Archive » Cookie Party 2007 Says:

    [...] of describing the event, since I can’t do it any better than Momma Bean, Jano, Hayat, Jad or Kinzi. I will say, however, that I had a blast and loved hanging out with everyone…even Hal and her [...]

  3. Dave Says:

    Kinzi, I had a blast. Thanks for the wonderful update and comments. You can check out my pictures here.

  4. Ziad D Says:

    I saw the pictures over at Dave’s blog! What a warm and wonderful looking group you guys are! :) Makes me wish I could blog.
    Merry Christmas Kinzi, to you and yours have a wonderful holiday season!! Pray for peace, and similar gatherings like these across the World.

  5. Jano Says:

    hey kinzi :D great Jad knew the directions with help from Dave, otherwise we would have waited for the night to follow the stars :p hehe

    I had a great time, really.. though i was a bit quite (unlike me) because its my first time with you all.. good you dont see the other side so early, ull get addicted hehehehehe jk

    Mwah :*

  6. Maher Says:

    Sweeet,Sounds like you guys had fun.. :)

  7. kinziblogs Says:

    Qwaider, Maher…the ‘test-case’ men were so well-behaved, we’ll open it up to everyone with 2 degrees of separation!

    Q, hey, you need to send a travel schedule of when you come to Amman. Are there any QP meet-up plans with the fearless leader in country?

    Dave, I had a blast too and thanks for the photos!! It took me three seconds to get the metrosexual guy with the hairy armpits…so was that pre or post ‘trim’?

    Ziad, 3njad warm and wonderful folks. It was a little haven of peace: cross-culture/faith/generational/gender. Now why is it you haven’t started blogging? Afraid of addiction? Be afraid! :)

    Jano, good strategy! Get em hooked, then be your inner self. I would be curious to see your noisy side!

  8. Lina Says:

    I can’t believe I stayed at the office proofreading and forgot that it was Wednesday :’(

    I’ve missed out on so many great blogger gatherings lately it just sucks!

    But I”m glad that what happened at the cookie party did not stay there ;)

  9. manal y Says:

    Manal will deffentlly help you achieve your goal of becoming a less text-heavy, image-friendly blogger in 2008.

    thnaks for the great words, im a combo :D
    it was my pleasure also meeting u, i should’vd done that long time ago
    u were even more than what i have expected. and my expectations were huge in the first place.

  10. qwaider Says:

    On one condition, I would have to rely on your organizational skills to do this. You know, I’m pretty much a one man show :)

  11. Saned Says:

    ma fee bictures :P

  12. Maioush Says:

    WOW! you guys had so much fun! :D that’s great

  13. Life Says:

    This is a cute review.. Kinzi.. hehe.. I love it! :) :)

  14. Umm Zaid Says:

    Aw, thank you. Maybe another one in the spring. Spring and cookies go well together. The cookies (seen at Dave’s) look delicious.

  15. kinziblogs Says:

    Lina, another thing I learned from Dave is to call people who haven’t arrived yet. Next time, we hunt you down and bring you (and Umm Zaid). Imagine, slaving over proof-reading cookie-less! Gotta be against labor laws.

    Manal, basta7i! Honey, believe me, I will fail you eventually with such high expectations, I manage that even with people who have low expectations. But for now, I will enjoy the exalted honor and we will cross that bridge when we come to it. THANK you for already passing on some hints! I will try it next post and hat-tip you.

    Qwaider, WHAT organizational skills? YYYIII, I am as organizationally-challenged a visionary as they come, but with MommaBean there, we tag team well. But yea, let’s contemplate such a gathering next visit!!

    Saned, ma fee talent!! Insha’allah, 2008 I will learn this and practice it enough not to forget, like I forgot pdf files. BAS, go see Davés and Jano’s blogs, fee visuals how-neek. :) Hey, thanks for the FB message, btw. You are the man! (do people still say that?)

    Maioush, it was a blast. You and I and whoever we can drag to LA will plan an event this summer…get your thinking cap on! How about gingerbread skyscrapers?

    Life, ya hayati, heh-heh…I bet Layalina hires me as their gossip columnist someday!

    Umm Zaid, AAAHHHH sigh of relief, thanks for the gracious pass. As I commented to Lina, next time I will have Spikekid put your number in my phone (not a scrap of paper) so we can hunt you down and bring you (and your kounouz). How about Spring and Valentines? Glad you enjoyed the picture’s at Dave’s!

  16. summer Says:

    Sounds like great fun!! i have been missing SO much! IF i was there i would have taken the pictures for sure….next time you plan a cookie party let me know few days ahead of time and i will plan my travel to Amman accordingly!! i am serious! :)

  17. Ziad D Says:

    I am very addicted to reading blogs. I love reading posts that are well thought-out, well-written, have a kind message, funny and informative. Unfortunately, I don’t have much to contribute. Not to mention that I am not a fan of commentors that, how shall I put this, feel it necessary to criticize and badger a blogger. I don’t think I can handle hurtful comments too well.
    Your blog, and all other people’s blog for that matter, to me, are someone’s personal virtual home. If I am there to read and make a comment, I had better be on my best behavior. I wish other people see it this way. Unfortunately, that is never the case. I tend to wear my heart on my sleave and can easily be agitated by rudeness.
    Please don’t stop blogging Kinzi :) I won’t stop reading! ;)

  18. Shaden Says:

    what a sweet review Kinzi! it was really lovely meeting you. it’s been a while!
    you looked gorgeous btw ;) i guess i was preoccupied and forgot to tell you that hehe

  19. kinziblogs Says:

    Summer, know what? I DO believe you would fly in to one of these cookie parties! Well, I think consensus is for another around Valentines/Spring, we’ll just have to pick a time you aren’t in Kuwait/Bahrain/Egypt/Chicago/Beirut. Love that jet-setting lady! AND…we’ll be on video for your cooking blog!

    Ziad, you have lots of good encouraging words to contribute. I tell ya, the LEAST practiced spiritual gift in the ME is that of encouragement. SO much tearing down, SO little building up. Yes, yucky commenters are a drag. They bug me too, they make me pray more. I love your philosophy about a blog being someone’s home, we are invited in and should act accordingly. May God bless that heart of yours; and yea, maybe blessing others with your comments is the best alternative.

    Shaden, inti il a7la, oo il AGrageous. Did that make sense? :) But hey, thanks for telling me, it is always a happy thought! It has been TOO long…I just called you and you probably didn’t know it was me…hopefully we can get together in the next day or so!

  20. Ziad D Says:

    Bless you and your family too Kinzi. Have a wonderful Christmas and New Year! Khajjalteeni (you made me blush!)

  21. Moey Says:

    sorry for not being able to make it!

    I’m enjoying the season’s greeting with family thanks to your prayers!

    **note: maybe we can plan something else when I come back :P

  22. Saned Says:

    Thanks. Yeah, they still say it :)

  23. kinziblogs Says:

    Ziad, receive it! :) May you likewise have a wonderful new year and most blessed Christmas celebration.

    Moey, I AM SO GLAD!!! YAHOO! Those are my favorite kind of prayers. :) Yes, it sounds as if we may have to plan another party for you and several others. :)

    Saned, I’m glad, I wouldn’t want to give you an old-fashioned, uncool compliment. :D

  24. asoom Says:

    I’m jealous ;)

    “We all have to admit, it is a little weird to meet your fav bloggers for the first time. We know WAY too much about one another, remember a stupid comment or post we made and hope that person forgets. ”

    Now that EXACTLY would be my hesitation in attending one of these blogger gatherings, looool

  25. bambam Says:

    hey thanks kinzi for the kind mention, and it was a pleasure to meet you at the gathering and hope i could’ve stayed a bit longer to actually get to meet everyone there but even for that short spell it was blast meeting all of you;)
    as for the star signs i told you i suck at guessing them … i think i have 10 more to go (already tried and failed miserably before) but personality wise and looks i came pretty close if i might say myself :D def. a character type 7

    Hope the cookies didn’t taste too bad and sorry for the uber belated comment

  26. kinziblogs Says:

    Asoom, I forgot to reply to your comment! If you make it back here, jst to let you know, this group is SO unique, and the wierdness only lasts for 5 minutes. People seem to remember the brilliant things first. :)

    Bam, heh-heh, now that I have met you I didn’t worry that the comment was uber-belated. It was a pleasure to meet you too, and next time hopefully we will have more time! The cookies were delish AND cute!

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